Dierdre Morris, The Fertility Evolution
By Deidre Morris, MSc., M.Ed., TheFertilityEvolution.com
In his research with stem cells, Dr. Bruce Lipton Ph.D. concluded that the most important factor in determining what happens in the human body is the mind. According to him, our interpretations and perceptions affect our blood and that this in turn determines the fate of cells.
Below, I share 10 tips aimed at empowering women over 40 trying to conceive to harness the power of this research so that you can have your baby over 40 and well beyond.
"I didn't even realize this is what I was doing but I used this positive thinking approach To get pregnant naturally at 43 and it worked, even after a miscarriage! "Theresa Turchin (owner/ designer Turchin Love&Light Light Jewelry)
Tip 1: Interpret Evidence of Your Fertility
Instead of assuming that your chances of getting pregnant are reducing with each month, choose to see your period as powerful evidence of your fertility and view it as your body letting go of what needs to be shed before you and your baby come together.
Tip 2: Interpret Fertility Statistics
Dr. Jean Twenge shares that ‘millions of women are being told when to get pregnant based on statistics from a time before electricity, antibiotics, or fertility treatment’. When you hear negative statistics, you can interpret them as numbers that just don’t apply to your unique fertility journey.
Tip 3: Interpret Evidence of Your Motherhood
When you see a pregnant woman or hear the news of yet another pregnancy, allow yourself to receive it as a reminder of your own proximity with pregnancy. When somebody asks if you have children, assume that she/he is picking up on your imminent pregnancy and giving you a sign!
Tip 4: Interpret Your Emotions
It is the feminine that brings forth new life. Begin to honor your feelings and emotions. Remember that when you are emotional, it is just evidence of the feminine in you expressing herself and paving the way for even greater expression in the form of a baby!
Tip 5: Interpret The Friendship of Your Body
Your body really is your friend. Choose to believe that it is completely on your side and preparing beautifully for your baby even if you cannot perceive the details right now. Get into the habit of thanking your body for all that it does and being a safe, nourishing space for your baby.
Tip 6: Perceive Your Youth
Make a long list of all your youthful aspects or anything that points to you being young and fit e.g. being able to stretch and move with ease, your laughter, your wonder etc. Read this often and add it so that you become more and more aware of your true youthfulness.
Tip 7: Perceive The Child Within
Start doing the things that you loved as a child. Skip down the street. Dance to your favorite tune. Make a daisy chain. Sing out loud. Every day spend time with your own inner child as preparation for special time with your little one.
Tip 8: Perceive Support For Your Motherhood
Even if they are not conscious of it, decide the every person and experience is guiding you into motherhood (especially those who seem insensitive). In your mind, thank them for supporting healthy, mature motherhood in ways that neither of you are aware of yet.
Tip 9: Perceive Your Fertility
It is understandable that we need to share sadness. But if you keep on beating the drum of loss, that becomes the environment that shapes what is happening in your body. Replace infertility discussions with fertility ones so that the latter can become dominant in your vibration.
Tip 10: Perceive Positive Others
It matters who you share your time with. Others’ fears and beliefs have an impact on what you are thinking. Choose to spend time with people who are confident in your ability to have a baby over 40 and will hold that vision for you even when you feel shaky.
