Organizing Your Outfits and Closet Step One

Don't you want to be one of those women that always looks effortlessly put together, even when she's wearing jeans and a tee. She's learned the art of a key accessory or two that takes a simple outfit to the next level of cool or chic. 

We can all learn her tricks but first you need to realistically go through your closet and put everything you haven't worn and hasn't fit for the last 18 months in bags, that will be donated or at least put in storage until your ready to donate.

THE ESSENTIALS YOU NEED TO KEEP

Step 1: You want essentials in your wardrobe ( essentials will change depending on your job right now I'm talking about weekend wear and after work wear)

1. A well fitting pair of modern jeans in a various assortment, a flair, a distressed, a skinny whichever you feel comfortable in and look good on your body type, be realistic.

2. An assortment of tanks that can be worn alone and as a under layer, they should be long enough so your belly dosent peek out in a variety of classic colors, white, navy, black, and chocolate brown.

3. Classic tee's in short and long sleeves (think Gap) in the same colors as above, I also always keep at least one striped tee in the mix, right now I have three.

4. An oversized denim shirt or jacket, make sure it's a clean design and isn't overly adorned with anything, classic denim will last forever and always looks modern, make sure the jacket isn't too oversized but fits well.

5. Classic white button down shirts, a stripe is fun, and any other colors that go with your wardrobe.

I like to have about three or four.

6. Leggings long for winter and solid colors are best without shine or any adornment, cropped below the knee for spring and summer, go for classic colors, black, navy, chocolate brown, and only white if you're legs are really in shape and well toned since white leggings are Unforgiving and rarely look good on anyone unless your 18, 5'9"" and as skinny as a model.

7. Nice running walking/sneakers think Adidas, Nike, New Balance or similar, ankle boots in black or brown/tan, flat strappy sandals, footbed sandals a modern take on a Birkenstock, there are so many styles now, a pump in a classic color and a sexy strappy heel or wedge whatever you can walk in that's' still has chic factor. Choose classic colors in all except the running shoes which can be fun, like orange, turquoise, or stark white.

8. A trench coat in black or a sand color, a black blazer, a pop of color blazer or jacket as in a bomber or suede/ leather jacket.

9. Little black dress without any extra adornments, a modern style that isn't too trendy.

10. Black trousers and black jeans.

Once you have the Essentials in your wardrobe it's simple to put your look together then add one chic accessory or two to amp your style from classic to classic chic.

Essential Accessories:

1. At least 3 scarves skinny and wide that can be draped, tied, and worn long around your neck and shoulders.

2. Belts, leather and fabric belts for trousers and pants, wide waist belts even an Obi belt, Asian influences always come in and out so it's a fun style to keep forever.

3. Sequin jacket to throw over jeans and a striped tee for a chic Parisian look.

4. Layered bracelets, a mens style watch, long necklaces to layer with skinny silver and gold chains with pendants.

5. A perfect mani and pedi always.

6. A modern tote or carry all in a classic color 

7. Cool oversized sunglasses modern and chic.

8. One or two wide brimmed or man style hats.

Here Are Some Ideas On How To Put It All Together

Hair Cuts That Flatter....Us!

I remember when I was 29 years old I said to myself when I turn 30 I'm lopping my past the shoulder length hair off to just above shoulder length since that is an appropriate length for my age......WHAT was I thinking!! I didn't do it Thank God because I really love my long hair, I keep it colored and trimmed regularly so it's bouncy and shiny and Damed if I do I may keep it this way for another decade!

So what hair length and cuts flatter not 20 year olds?

This depends on 2 factors.

1. Face shape

2. Lifestyle...that's it!!

If you work in a corporate office on a weekly basis you obviously need polished hair, not sexy or pastel colored, that makes sense. If you are a freelance writer you have more options and freedom,

A doctor needs to look professional, A mom with young kids needs flexibility; whatever your lifestyle, your hair style needs to work with, Not the other way around.

Face Shapes: Usually round, and heart shaped faces look great with almost any length hair, except  maybe super short, square faces look great with short hair and most every other length. Long faces typically look best with bobs of all lengths, mid length styles, short hair and extra long hair will draw a long face down. I have a long face and wear my hair past my shoulders so I have my stylist Draco from Hair Dragon Salon in Miami cut wispy pieces in the front to add some softness. 

I included a picture of myself below along with some hair-styles I love that are flattering, cool and somewhat easy to pull off! Please share your ideas for great flattering cuts!!